Meeting Virginia

It’s why I walk.

I met Virginia today. More accurately, I met her a couple of years ago before I got sick, but I don’t think she remembers me. She was standing by her front door and I had picked up her newspaper and handed it to her so she wouldn’t have to walk down the three steps to gather it herself. I had seen her neighbor do it for her, so now when I see her paper on the wet grass or on her front walkway or even at the curb near the street, I pick it up, fold it, and slip it into the entry door handle. That way, all she has to do is open the screen door of her front porch, reach to her left and retrieve her paper.

Virginia is 95 years old. She lives alone, but does not appear lonely. Today, I was a half block away from her home when I saw her navigating her front steps to get the newspaper. I hurried along with Franklin, crossing the street, but she had already reached the paper and with the use of her cane and side banister, was already walking back up the steps to her porch door. I was a house away when I said, “Good morning, Virginia! You beat me to it today!”

“So, you’re the one!” she said. “I didn’t know who it was that was bringing up my paper. I wanted to write a note and leave it on the door saying, ‘Thank you!’” She stood upright and her white hair was combed neatly. She was already dressed for the day, and on this cooler morning, wore a white sweater that fit her beautifully. She invited me to come in and I could think of nothing better.

Franklin waited on the enclosed porch while Virginia took me into her living room. She turned on every lamp in the room. The walls were pink and she noted that while the house was built in the 1930s, the walls still had no cracks in them. She went through a litany of colors that the walls had been painted over the years, but seemed content with the current shade. The couch was hers; the chairs were all given to her by family members who had no more use for them. She said it with a smile.

She took me into each room: the kitchen with its large pantry and oversized dining table; the bedroom which was formerly two rooms, but when her daughter moved out, she had it made into one larger room with two clothes closets. I noticed that her bed was made and she pointed out that she’s made her bed every day since she was seven or eight years old. Her routine was to get up, make the bed, wash up, get dressed, and put on earrings. She used to work for the local board of education and was accustomed to dressing up.

She and her husband moved here when she was 31. She says it’s an easy house to live in. It’s where she raised her four children—one of whom died of dementia. She invited me to sit, but I needed to get back to my walk with Franklin. She told me to stop anytime if I needed a drink or to use the bathroom.

I gathered up Franklin and stepped outside of Virginia’s home. We continued on the downhill slope of Brandywine Boulevard, past Tom who called out to me to pick some figs—they ripen a little at a time and you have to get to them. I returned a call to my three-year-old granddaughter who called while I was at Virginia’s. She and my daughter call me on her way to school. The sound of her voice is music to my soul.

I looked from Franklin to the sky to the cars bustling by. To the buses on their practice routes before school begins next week. I look at the lawns and bushes and peeled bark of sycamore trees. And, I wonder about the people I pass—the ones I can see and the ones behind closed doors. The ones like Virginia.